Tuesday 29 January 2013

I envy mommy bloggers!

   Yes! The title is true!! I envy mommy bloggers. A majority of the blogs that I follow are mommy blogs. While I have to keep thinking what to write, mommy bloggers have it easy. They can go on and on about cute kids. And kids do provide a lot of material. It can be a simple conversation, a tantrum or learning something new. You just cant get enough of it. To add to all that, it makes for interesting reading too. if not anything they can just post a pic of the baby and there will be fifty responses 'so cute!!'. I am also one of those who does comments like that. So all mommy bloggers, listen up!I envy you!!

P.S. I This post is because I had nothing to write and was racking my brains for something interesting. Though I envy you, I also give you all credit for the excellent writing and regular blogging!!

Tuesday 8 January 2013

A guilt trip!

    Wishing you all a very happy new year!! I am back from Delhi and back to Bangalore too. Meeting A after one and a half month. So long!! So, as this new year started,, I went on an introspection mode. At the end of all the thinking, I wasn't really sure if I made a good wife. Let me elaborate.
1. I can't cook. I did make an effort to try and learn. I thought once I get a hang of it, I might enjoy. But I failed miserably. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach! Whoever said that, must be a man who liked good food. Just the occasional cup of tea should help me take baby steps towards A's heart.
2. I don't like dressing up or make up. I feel going to the salon is a pain. On most days, I look as if I need a waxing or facial immediately. My face doesn't glow or radiate.
3. If I thought I could be a good daughter-in-law first and then a good wife later, I was naive. I always forget to touch elder's feet. I hardly know any of their customs and put on a blank face during most ceremonies or pujas.
4. I am not great at making a conversation. Actually, I am quite ok and can strike a decent conversation. But A is so calm that I eventually run out of all topics. Both of us ending up watching something on the TV. It's quite a miracle that we at least agree on the same channel.
5.I don't keep the house in pristine clean state. It is always ALWAYS dirty. The excuse that I give is that I come to Bangalore for such short period that I don't want to put efforts. Besides, what's the point? It is sure to get dirty again.

   So, I might have failed in most aspects. But I get brownie points for keeping A happy. A himself told ( in a rare moment of expressing love) that he is more happy and contented after marriage. Yayy to that.
This year, I will work on a few aspects. I am amazed at how my mom does everything. Am I really her daughter? Tough to believe considering how lazy I am.

This year's resolution: I won't be lazy! I will make an effort towards the above mentioned points.

So what are your resolutions for this year?? Hope you haven't already broken them :)